Living and Enjoying


"So, another holiday when we are thankful. And the ultimate thanks come from sensing that we have not arrived. You see, if it were that this is the pinnacle, what would we have to celebrate. But if this is a milestone on a long journey, we can stop at the inn and eat turkey and give thanks--not just for how far and how well we’ve come, but also for how far there is still to go.

"Hope is sensing that there is a meaningful road ahead.” (11/24/2005 - O#67)



"There’s an infinite more, so how come we miss the finite parts. But we do. And I have come to realize that’s one of the gifts of Creation. Because if we didn’t miss because there was an infinite other, then we couldn’t care either.

"And infinity doesn’t mean interchangeable. You can’t replace that hamster, but you can get another one. Having an infinite ‘anothers’ is not the same as replacing." (1/22/2006 - O#68)



"One cannot tell by the results, what the cause is. This is often true. Don’t mistake one for the other. For example, when you are feeling anxiety, that does not mean there are things to worry about. And when you are feeling spiritual, that doesn’t mean what you experience is any more profound than when you are feeling profane. ‘And when you are feeling Rikkity’... CT, put the muzzle back on. ‘What.’ Lock it. ‘O, yes... mmmm.’ Good. CT, how were the cookies? ‘Mmmm.’

“People get cause and effect confused. And even more get cause and affect confused... and don’t even start with effect and affect!

“Just because the stove is hot, doesn’t mean you are cooking. O such pith!” (2/11/2006 - O#69)




"What’s the point of mind over matter if matter is an illusion... the power of positive stinking.

“He fed the poor by telling them their realities were their choice.

“And if you can’t control what happens to you, but you can control how you react, focusing on controlling what happens is a great way to avoid risking responsibility for your reactions. And then you are double down: You think you are focusing on what you theoretically can do, and not on what you can; so you fail twice--victim˛.

“Change that attitude and the rest becomes easy. Ok, I’m pithed.” (2/17/2006 - O#70)



“Look, here’s the scoop: Some places are just awful. Some places are not good for you but you can make them ok. Some places just are, and you can make them better. And some places are good and you can make them great. And some places are great without you doing any good. Now, out of these, the first, middle, and last are not great places. One is bad, one is blah, and one is so good you don’t get no satisfaction... you try and try and try. So options 2 and 4 are best.

“Let’s review: Not great but your efforts make a difference, great for saviors. And choice 4 is goodness for the foundation of greatness--no martyrs, but creators here. So if it is perfect, forget it. If it is forgettable, forget it. If it is awful, forget it. If it has potential, consider if you want to be a savior or a creator, then make your choices. Got it. No Edens, no Hades, no no no Limbos.” (8/21/2006 - O#71)

Page 1 Page 2

Collected Points to Ponder Menu


Table Of Contents

Last Update: 1/1/2007
Web Author:
the Rev Dr Randolph and Elissa Bishop Becker, M.Ed., LPC, NCC
Copyright ©1998-2007 by the Rev Dr Randolph and Elissa Bishop Becker

ALL RIGHTS RESERVED