Living and Enjoying


"One cannot tell by the results, what the cause is. This is often true. Don’t mistake one for the other. For example, when you are feeling anxiety, that does not mean there are things to worry about. And when you are feeling spiritual, that doesn’t mean what you experience is any more profound than when you are feeling profane. ‘And when you are feeling Rikkity’... CT, put the muzzle back on. ‘What.’ Lock it. ‘O, yes... mmmm.’ Good. CT, how were the cookies? ‘Mmmm.’

“People get cause and effect confused. And even more get cause and affect confused... and don’t even start with effect and affect!

“Just because the stove is hot, doesn’t mean you are cooking. O such pith!” (2/11/2006 - O#68)



"Ah, gracious: Now there’s a word--full of possibilities, coupled with safety and allure. An invitation to the universal YES, with assurance of benevolence. Who could ask for anything more.” (3/10/2006 - O#69)



"I like
al fresco. Al’s a great spirit. So, is it different in nature? Where isn’t it in nature.

“People keep assuming it’s nature, but it’s really people’s changed perspectives. I wonder if a forest ranger takes a vacation to Times Square and says ‘Ah, I can relax and see the larger picture.’ To us the sea is the beckoning horizon, but to a sailor it’s work. There is no place in the physical world with more meaning than another... ‘except for that one.’ CT!” (9/27/2007 - O#70)




"Ah holidays, days with a choice built in. We can use them as a time to recollect how much we’ve lost in life--the empty chairs at the table, the storied people from before, how much we miss them, and how life isn’t like it used to be. Or we can choose to celebrate how our lives have been touched by love and meaning, and how--even if we sit down to a table by ourselves--we are never again truly alone. And if we sit down to a table by our elves... well, duh. ‘Hi.’

“I and we... and even they... are amazed, but not amused, by how people take such opportunities to focus on the empty, not the full. Hey, if you have to miss someone on Thanksgiving, miss Stalin or Hitler, but don’t miss the ones who loved and cared and filled, for they and their loving, caring, and filling are not gone--unless you act as if they are.

Genghis Khan we’re not sure about. The Khan family might find them memorable. 'Hey, set a place for Uncle Genghis... or else he’ll take it anyway.'

“So, I want you should feast and celebrate. Can’t get rid of us with something as trifling as death! That’s my holiday message. ‘Hey, I’ll give you one.’ One what. ‘A holiday massage.’ O, CT, you rub me the right way!” (11/20/2007 - O#71)




"We are all projections of information--both our physical and spiritual elves. Otherwise, this communication would not be possible.

"We are manifested in many ways. But manifestations of what? 'Ectoplasm.’ No, CT! ‘Endoplasm?’ *tap tap tap* ‘Plasma.’ Well yes, at times we are plasma, but plasma is a projection.

“How about anti-jection: You are what you are not. No, let’s not go there. Not shadows; shadows are what you are, too. Anti-jections are the absences in the fabric of being if you are not. But then being is not being in the same way.
It’s a Wonderful Life: He was not his absence, nor was his being defined by his absence, but his absence was.

“There is no such thing as no such thing. You can’t point to being and say ‘See, there’s what’s missing,’ like a jigsaw puzzle that has been around too long. Because if you are living in a living matrix of being, then there are no empty spaces. See, that’s what the grieving need to come to realize. If you don’t set an extra place at the table, there is no empty seat. Being is always whole and complete. It is just our perception that it’s not. Careful now, I did not say 'it snot.'

“And anyone who comes out the other side of change knows this. What was would have been different and seemed incomplete with someone or something missing, but they weren’t. And now it is just as complete, but with a changed cast of characters and things and wee wittle whatevers which slowly darken at dusk.

“Reality is always quicker than perception. And Mighty Mouse is faster than Persephone.
‘Here he comes to save the day.’" (3/1/2008 - O#72)



“People who live by the ups and downs of life never realize how far along they’ve traveled.” (9/18/2008 - O#73)




“Laughter is always in the present! Whoa, that’s a big one.” (5/29/2010 - O#74)



Neutrinos: Can’t live with ‘em and can’t live without ‘em--the necessary intrusion of other existences, so we aren’t isolated. An existence without enigmas would have no future, because it would interact only with itself.

“So, those neutrinos. How come no car has been named a Neutrino. The new Ford Neutrino, essential to your travels but impossible to ticket. ‘Officer, did you see it.’ ‘Yes, it was going very fast but when I tried to pull it over, it was gone. Damn.’

“Just love what glues existence but isn’t really there. Sort of like reason. And in some other iteration, the neutrino world is perplexed by electrons: ‘We know they have energy, but we can’t figure for what. They’re just there.’ And so, Bob slowly drifted from existence to existence, hardly noticing when electrons replaced neutrinos. But give him a burger with mustard on it and he would rail against astrology. That’s it, folks.” (10/18/2010 - O#75)



Question from Matt: Has the choice of another lifetime come up?

“I get many offers--some of them about spending lifetimes. I refuse them all. I like surprises. A bird in the hand is worth a fistful of shit... and tiny little bones.

“And don’t accept any doors that open themselves for you, but wait for the ones to which you have the key.” (1/3/2011 - O#76)

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